OK, can you tell I am really down to the nitty gritty now?
If I heard from people after the Save the Date went out that they will not be able to make it, do I still send them a formal invite?
I think YES, because I don't want to leave them out
or NO, because I don't want them to think I am asking for a gift
Example - 2 of the couples that I know cannot make it are not people that I know, they are parent's co-workers, but there are 2 other couple who I know cannot make it and they are close friends.
What do you think?